How often do we live in the past or fast-forward to the future? We assess our circumstances according to our histories, and then we stifle our prospects based on unrealistic or antiquated expectations. We see what we want and think we know what we want, but we continue to put obstacles and misplaced concerns on the horizon. We want to get to that magical place where it all pays off and makes sense while making terms and conditions on how and when we will get there.