We all know, or at least have an idea, what we want from love. We want passion. We want commitment. We want adoration. We want unconditional love and desire. We want friendship and camaraderie. We want to be wanted. We want to feel all things good.

What if we turned the question around and asked, “What does love want from us?” Love confounds us, and love commits us. We struggle with love. We feel too much and want to shut it off. Yet when we don’t feel loved, we are the loneliest people on the planet. Does love want us to control it? Does love want us to commit to it? Does love want us to cherish it? Does love cherish and adore us? How do we learn to live with love?

Holly for the Positive Side of Things

Holly essence teaches us the value of unconditional love. We know what it feels like not to love. We know what it feels like to be hateful, suspicious, and jealous. We know what it feels like to be cut off from goodness. Holly essence transforms our intense negative emotions. This essence helps us to step out of our limited version of hurt and pain to engage peace and perspective.

Holly essence opens our hearts to what love wants to tell us. This essence unlocks the gates of anger and bitterness. Holly essence creates a new conduit for warmth to thaw the deep freeze of anger and isolation. Holly essence teaches us to live with love through warmth and connection.