I’m engaged to a man whom I hardly know, but he seems to have a wonderful personality. I’m sure I love him! An old boyfriend called me and asked me to marry him instead. I told him “No, I’m engaged.” I don’t even have his phone number, and I hung up quite abruptly. Since then, I can’t get him out of my mind. My happiest years were with him, and I know I’m still deeply in love with him. I don’t even know where he lives. Should I go ahead with my planned marriage and forget about him or try to find him? My fiancé calls me and texts me all the time, but the old boyfriend only calls me every few years. I love two men! How do I know what I should do? Can the angels help me? My parents are struggling to pay for this wedding.

— Sandy, email question

From the angels: If strong feelings and thoughts repeatedly echo in the mind, not of your own origin, it’s possible that angels may be trying to communicate something important to your soul’s growth. When direct questions are asked, we try to answer with respect to your individuality and free choice of the soul. We will not interfere.

We would ask you to wait until feelings are clear in the heart and the mind. Make no life decisions until clarity of your feelings is accepted.